Do Not Afraid to Love

  I'll tell you what I feel today.

  Do not afraid to Love Yourself.
  Do not afraid to Love others either.
  So what, that there is so much wars, violence and lies about you and others. So what? It shouldn't be the reason to give up. Because this who you are and what you feel counts. Do not let your heart believe, there is something wrong with you.
You deserve to love yourself. You deserve to love others. It is not about hugging everyone on the street. It is about what you feel inside. What you feel is who you are.
I wish you feel Love. I wish you Love Yourself and help others to Love themselves too. That is the best attitude we can have towards our life.

Irish Rural ''Theatre''

  Dear Friend,

 If ignorant people are kind to you, very kind to you, so kind to you and you are not living in their village for at least last ten generations - it is nooooooo good. Therefore it means a lot of lies were said about you.

  God is teaching us love, so let love fulfill our hearts.

''Wisdom and knowledge... ''

¹⁰ Therefore give me wisdom and knowledge to act as leader of this people, for how otherwise could such a great people as yours be governed?'

2 Chronicles

  So many teachers, school principals, doctors churches and politics notables, should pray for wisdom and knowledge first, before they will ''act as a leaders''!

 When you didn't receive proper ethical, moral background in your own home, where you have been growing up, you need to search for it yourself. That's very simple rule. Everyone can learn really this, what one needs or lacks. Any bad habit could be broken. I did thousand of lessons, in the theater and at home, that I have been rented over the sea. Everyone was a living prove of a power of the teacher and the student together, joining their efforts in breaking up the bad habits. The will should appear, the will that can change everything. If there is no will, even God Almighty won't act on your behalf, to do it against your free will choice. But... God will teach you the lesson. 

 Why I need to be the person, that is pointing all 'wrongs' and errors, so many times. Can people use their brains wisely? What happen to this world? and the people around me?   

 Why people protecting their positions by playing unfairly to the victims or sick, instead of, by using the proper administrative or/and educational tools etc. to stop, lessen and repair the damages caused.

 There is so many government organizations, having financial support from government and UE, that provide professional training. Of course, we always can discuss are the tools used in the training the best for the purpose and what are the newest trends, strategies in, for example, children psychology or psychotherapy. But this is what this thing is about, to get you involved in discussion, to grow, to improve, to share experience.

 Anyway, for all who decided to work ethically and rise their professional level doors are always open. You are the one that need to find right door. You will find them, if you know, what are you looking for. Here, you need to be smart enough to know what you shall do. This is a attitude of living. This is a program, you should follow throughout the years. In private life and at work. We all have a right to expect the right treatment everywhere, isn't it? I believe it is not only rhetoric question.

Being righteous enough to respond / Bullying at school and pricipal

 After few talks with educated nice (very few) residents in Rathcoole,Co Cork, I would say, you avoid this place, if you only can :-)

 What would you do, if principal of the school, where your child has been, and still is, discriminated and bullied would answer: '' Child, you should stand up for yourself'' .
 I heard, that GP commented those words:
-'' Stand up for yourself?? who can tell a bullied child to stand up for himself/herself?? how the child can stand up for himself / herself against the group??  it is alike to say a women, that is beating by her husband to stand up for herself every time she is beaten !! Can you tell the child, that is mocked or beaten by others to stand up for himself/ herself??? . ''
 The person that was referring mentioned situation to me says, that you may hear and see indignation, showed in whole posture of this cultural men.

 I won't tell you, what I think and feel about those many victims I heard about, but indignation is a good word. Christian would say ''those people are evil''. People full of righteousness would say "'those people show unethical, wrong behavior''. In my opinion bullying should meet an effective response, because it creates not only traumas, it creates generation of criminals, sure that grouping, that we can compare to mafia activity won't meet a punishment. Those people mocking the policies and laws, that are effectively disposes violent behaviors and regulating social life. Those people think, the justice will never touch them. Are we really interested to support them, by turning our heads, when we see the problem? are we ready to face the outcome of our negligence in the future?

I found something what could be useful for all victims and their guardians
To all, that feel and see their kids are suffering in a such case:  Make a move Dear Friend, if you know child that needs it.

 http://antibullyingireland.nfshost.com/node/13

God's view & Nationality & the goal of Balance

 God's view

  I have no idea, what is a 'God's view' really. Why? Because there where too many god's known on Earth until today. First then, we should establish, about which god we are taking about here. I can write only about how do I experience World around me, subjectively, or through something I may call Love, that I still experience the World through, most of the time. I would say I am lucky enough to say that, or naive enough, whatever... Even if I grow up one day, I believe this Love will stay and  will call her Me still in the future...

I met a nice men today...

 Nice and very cultural men, today, asked me about my nationality. Nationality ... hm... I believe I do not have one... Nationality is mostly something you can't change. Myself, I never felt nationality can describe me in any way. I never felt myself having nationality, experiencing nationality in the same way, as the people at large. I believe it may happen to those, who feel permanently different and are 'experienced' in this way by others. I was always not 'typical' and I didn't like (and I'm still the same) to follow other people's way, as my earthly being was conscious enough, to save me from ''typical'', but not smart, not moral or/and not ethical behaviors and from believing that science is always right. When I was growing up, I found out, one day that inventions and great scientifical  discoveries were made by individuals, that thought in the same way as me. So some, call this kind of mind genius, but now, I do not believe in geniuses at all. For me, discoveries and inventions are something we received, not created. When we try to create something, it always fails at some stage or/and at some points.
I believe, we have a deep need to be right and to do right. Righteousness is, as I believe, of our intrinsic value system the ultimate goal. Being genius (accordingly this way of experiencing reality)  may lead us towards megalomania, and is invention of evilness. Exception are those, who's faith in God is real and deep.

 If you ever feeling lost in life, try the exercise of 'simplifying everything', if you are able to cut yourself off  negativity, there will be next, but last step, that will lead you to perfect balance, which is purifying yourself. At every stage of this process, if you are not able to make it in the perfect way you may find yourself struggling with something. We are all finding ourselves at those points, so as a result, some may call this, what happen in a response, as sin, depression, problem that sometimes can evolve into an illness or/and some serious complications in life. So how to achieve the goal - balance and happiness than?  when there is always something standing on the way, between the perfection we dream about and us? why out there, they are showing so many ways, of how to achieve balance, that are involved negative things as well?
 The balance I dream about, do not have any negativity in it, or in either of both sides. It is true potential of being present as (for example) human being.