After few talks with educated nice (very few) residents in Rathcoole,Co Cork, I would say, you avoid this place, if you only can :-)
What would you do, if principal of the school, where your child has been, and still is, discriminated and bullied would answer: '' Child, you should stand up for yourself'' .
I heard, that GP commented those words:
-'' Stand up for yourself?? who can tell a bullied child to stand up for himself/herself?? how the child can stand up for himself / herself against the group?? it is alike to say a women, that is beating by her husband to stand up for herself every time she is beaten !! Can you tell the child, that is mocked or beaten by others to stand up for himself/ herself??? . ''
The person that was referring mentioned situation to me says, that you may hear and see indignation, showed in whole posture of this cultural men.
I won't tell you, what I think and feel about those many victims I heard about, but indignation is a good word. Christian would say ''those people are evil''. People full of righteousness would say "'those people show unethical, wrong behavior''. In my opinion bullying should meet an effective response, because it creates not only traumas, it creates generation of criminals, sure that grouping, that we can compare to mafia activity won't meet a punishment. Those people mocking the policies and laws, that are effectively disposes violent behaviors and regulating social life. Those people think, the justice will never touch them. Are we really interested to support them, by turning our heads, when we see the problem? are we ready to face the outcome of our negligence in the future?
I found something what could be useful for all victims and their guardians
To all, that feel and see their kids are suffering in a such case: Make a move Dear Friend, if you know child that needs it.
http://antibullyingireland.nfshost.com/node/13
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